Just wanna share some thoughts.
It took me 20 some years to finally love myself and realize the importance of it. I think as young adults we often get stuck somewhere along the way. We get so caught up by some people, some things that we shouldn’t be. But it’s okay, life still goes on, it’s better to feel something than nothing at all. And pain is what grows us ( if you don’t grow from this pain, you bet your ass you’ll get even worse pain until you learn your lesson).
About self love, it’s loving yourself and share this love with others instead of expecting love from others. At the end of the day you are getting what you give. Do you know what love truly is? It’s not about wanting the best for someone, it’s not about giving. It’s simply enjoying the moment you share with someone or something, that’s the universal genuine love. The feeling you get when you want to possess or the fear of losing someone(thing) is coming from internal issues that need to be healed, that is not love. Or you can call it poisonous “love”.
Note to self, judge less everyday and love more. “There’s nothing wrong with loving the crap out of everything. Negative people find their walls. So never apologize for your enthusiasm. Never. Ever. Never.”
Haha I am quite dorky ain’t I?